A Little About Melissa...

Freedom Lifestyle Coach

“Creation created us to be Creators.”

That was a message I received one day while meditating. It was not what I was expecting, so I started to write, and here’s the rest of the message…

We are Sparks of The Divine (whether you call it God, The Universe, Source, or something else matters not).

And Sparks burn.

Unless their fire goes out (they die – literally or figuratively).

What is your Spark?

What is it that makes you burn?

Is it your passion, your purpose?

Does your Spark still burn, or has it faded and you’re looking to re-ignite it?

You are unique – each one of us is unique – and what may be for one may not be for another.

There is no cookie-cutter answer. No “one size fits all” (I always hated that stupid statement because it never worked for me).

It’s simply not true. 

We are here, in this life – we came to this physical dimension – to BE.

To be what we came to be.

Whether that’s one thing or another is entirely unique to you.

We are here to live, to create, to spark, to shine, to exist, to expand, to grow, to move toward the light.

And your journey toward the light is unique to you, to your soul, to your essence.

Don’t be lured into the trap of conformity (by that I don’t mean you have to run out and be a raving radical), just do what’s right for you.  Not because you think other people approve or expect it.

Follow your own Spark.

BE your own Spark.

Light your own way.


In 2018, I underwent a radical transformation.

I took a step back, a step away. A withdrawal. A re-assessment.

And I’ve come to a realization…

I am beginning to let my Spark burn. To let it light my way. To let it light your way.

And, it’s a little uncomfortable.

It’s not what I thought it would be.

And I’m not sure it’s what other people will like, or accept, or want.

But I have to follow it.

So here I am.

Reluctantly holding up my Spark for all to see, so that I may light the way for those few (or many) who also want to follow their own Spark.

I fear judgment.

I fear failure.

I’m afraid.

But I must do this.


So here I am.


I felt a little strange writing that, but it’s what came through.  And I feel the truth in it.

I’m here to share with you a lifetime of experience on Breaking Free and Being.

From my younger days of walking away from a promising college degree and career to follow my heart by becoming a professional jockey – to my recent decision of selling everything and living and traveling in an RV.

I know what it’s like to live a freedom lifestyle.

I understand the process, the trials, the tribulations, and everything in-between.

I’ve been moved into action by the people who have told me that I inspire them, by the people who have asked me for advice, and by the people I see struggling to gain their own sense of self and their own sense of freedom.

To put it simply, I want to help.

If you’re in search of answers to personal freedom, you’re in the right place.

Take a look around, check out the free mini-course “3 Steps To Freedom” HERE.

I’m here to help you achieve your freedom, so you can live your own life on your own terms.

Be what you want, who you want, and live how you want. There just isn’t enough of that in the world today.

If you have any questions, please contact me, or feel free to check out what’s available HERE.

I can only help if you reach out.

Looking forward to your freedom…


From my heart to yours,

Melissa Dafnis

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